Girls usually don’t approach guys, since most of the today’s society thinks it’s a man job to do so. So how do you show a guy you want to be approached by him? It’s simple, you look at him for 1-3 seconds and smile. That should give him idea that you want to be approached by him. So next time you are at the gym and see that cute guy, let him catch you staring at him, but make sure to smile when he does, don’t creep him out. Sometimes he will be confident enough to come up to you and say hi, if he does it’s your win, if he doesn’t probably means 3 things, he is shy, you are not his type, or he is taken. Attracting man it’s a numbers game. The more you do it the more chances you will have to meet the “one”. If you don’t want to wait on a guy to do the first move, maybe he is shy, it’s up to you to make the first move, be a alpha female.